I printed out the financial statements from Quicken (she religiously enters everything spent by both of us) and just handed it to her. She saw the $10, for pooch and said, "Oh. My. God." Which is exactly the reaction she
Lonely women seeking casual sex Erie had last year when she looked at the $12, and the year before when she looked at the $9. However, when it comes to the "decision point", she can't seem to stop herself in some areas. She's very frugal with car repairs too frugal, in fact; she buys the parts, leaves them on the dining room table and expects me to fix the car. At least, with her new car, that's a thing of the past. Trust me, I don't throw things in her face. I'm actually fairly well skilled at working with people that's why I'm paid what I'm paid. But of course, it's harder when it's your own marriage. She feels like crap because she can't find a job but she can't find a job because she has too demands. Must be a 5 mile or less commute, must be a job with no deadlines (as if they existed), etc. On the dog thing, she asks occasionally if I'd like to get a second dog, since ours is old and ailing. I tell her OK, but only after she has produced a spending plan that she intends to stick with. She agrees and produces no plan. But she also has not gotten another pooch, either.